Dealing With Rejection…Persevering Your Attempts!
Many men who attempt to learn how to be a pickup artist and learn the art of how to attract women often give up or develop a sense of hopelessness after only a few rejections from women. As the pickup artist, you will find at times there will be moments you will have to face rejection, and it’s how you deal with that rejection that will ultimately determine whether your future pickup artist methods are going to continue to work for you. You can persevere as the pickup artist if you know how to handle rejection and become an individual that’s not so willing to give up just because you were turned down a couple of times by some women you’re trying to attract.
Let’s face it, rejection is not a fun thing for anyone, but your attitude shapes the kind of pickup artist you are. What I mean by this is that if you go into the practice of being the pickup artist with a positive mindset and attitude and you can easily blow off rejection and move onto the next prospect, the likelihood that you’re going to be a successful pickup artist increases dramatically.
On the other hand, if you should become a pickup artist and you handle rejection terribly and you allow every rejection to affect you personally, and you further allow that rejection to shape how you react and interact with women, your attempt to attract women will begin to fail time and time again.
Look at it this way: if you were to approach 20 women, you may get 10 rejections from half of the 20 women you’ve approached. I’m saying, so what of it? You can easily look at it as if you’ve been rejected 10 times, or you can look at it as if you have been successful in your attempt to attract women 10 times; it is the glass is half empty, half full philosophy, and the way you choose to look at and deal with rejection shapes your future interactions with women.
I would like to also suggest at this time that if every single attempt to attract women was successful, then everyone would be a successful pickup artist! Women are unique individuals, with unique interests, passions, likes, dislikes, and no matter how successful you are as a pickup artist you are not going to be successful in every attempt you make to attract a woman. To hold that kind of expectation of yourself is to compare yourself to an impossible ideal to set standards that are unreachable and unattainable for yourself. What I’m saying is that you need to be a little fairer to yourself, and reasonably come to expect that you’re going to experience rejection from time to time.
The best way to handle rejection is that you consider why you were rejected and move on. For example, if you were rejected because your pickup strategies need improvement, you can learn from the event involving rejection, improve and change your pickup methods, and thereby increase the level of success for attracting women in the future.
In addition, if you were rejected simply because the women did not hold any interest in you or there was no spark or connection, you need to simply move on to the next opportunity you encounter to attract women. There is no need to allow an instance of rejection to define or to be an all defining factor in the way you interact with women or attempt to attract women. In essence, you need to either learn from rejection or get over it!
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